My preschooler and I often have this conversation:
Pr: " Mom......"
Mom: "What?"
Pr: " I like you."
Mom: " I like you too."
but then, he will at times, then ask,
Pr: "Why do you like me?"
At which time, I will find many things to say to him:
"because...
you're smart
handsome
you're a strong superhero
you help save the city
you're nice to your brother
you help clean up your room
you are a great tractor driver
you make have a great laugh
you shared your cookie with me..."
Sometimes I have to think quickly to come up with so many things...but he loves hearing whatever I say and you can see him smile and his head lift a little higher as I compliment him. I think about how great he feels afterwards and try to also do the same to my other children in some way, give at least one compliment a day. There were times (during their teen years) that it was difficult to come up with at least one...but nowadays, it's easy (and worth the time.)
that is soooo sweet
ReplyDeletePraise really nourishes the spirit
That is darling - and I couldn't agree with K's comment more!
ReplyDeleteCompliments are nice, no matter how little we are.
ReplyDeleteVery Sweet Robin.