I love this grandmother stuff! I can go and help out and then go home at night! I have time to regenerize and not have to worry about when I can take the next shower. Of course, being an experienced mom, I've learned some things to do to make my time more efficient that my daughter is just now learning. I'm trying to do those things people mention you should do...like not offer advice unwarranted (this one is hard for me, lol!) I find myself doing things for her without thinking such as packing items on the way to a doctor office and then she is looking for it (I should have let her do it.) She's becoming a better mom each day. I love that her sister (my younger daughter,) her boyfriend's family, my immediate and extended family, and her close friends all come together to support her and help her get from one day to the next. Nevertheless, Olivia is 3, almost 4 weeks now and all is well...today.